HomeLifestyleBachelor Blowup: How a Sex Toy Became the Breakout Star of Matt James' Premiere
Bachelor Blowup: How a Sex Toy Became the Breakout Star of Matt James' Premiere
“I brought something from home that’s really special to me and I thought I’d share it with you.”
The first night of any “Bachelor” franchise series is all about first impressions. There’s a whole new slew of contestants to meet, and even a special rose all about that important moment.
But this is the first night in a very long time where we were getting first impressions of everyone (except for Chris Harrison), and there was something special and refreshing about it.
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We were a little worried that we’d never met Matt James before this premiere — most Bachelors and Bachelorettes are selected from past Bachelor Nation contestants — but instead it proved just as interesting getting to know him alongside the record-breaking thirty-two ladies.
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Seriously, was there any reason to drop this many women on him at once? And the season teaser suggests there might be more latecomers dropping in? Why on earth would that be necessary?
Even as it was, 32 proved way too many for him to juggle in one night, leading to several of the women getting absolutely zero time with him before he awarded that First Impression Rose.
While we’d try to feel bad for them, it also seemed like there were more than a few who really weren’t making any real effort to make time with him. In fact, one of the ladies scored two visits. At least she was trying to urge the other women to go find him before she decided to just double-dip herself.
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First Impression Villain
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There’s no telling who will emerge as the season’s biggest jerk, but opening night seems to be a toss-up between two very soft villains. “Queen” Victoria was clearly being given that edit, but hers was a more playful villainy.
Sure, she’s the one who stole that second time with Matt, but only after she tried to convince some of the other girls to do just that and they rebuffed her. So in a way, she’s being friendly while also being a lot annoying.
Certainly Kit did not like being called a “princess” and basically being told to go away from talking with Matt because the “queen” had now arrived. She’s leaning almost as heavily into her gimmick as the night’s other almost-villain did.
The other villain barely fits the title, either (the preview indicates that might soon change), but she’s still a little overly aggressive with her gag prop, clearly making some people uncomfortable and even awkwardly interrupting a meaningful conversation by tapping one woman on the shoulder with it.
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First Impression Sex Toy
Yes, we’re talking about Katie and the night’s breakout star, the dildo she brought along in hopes she would stand out as memorable and funny to Matt. It worked, too, as he found it absolutely hilarious.
The women were all getting good laughs out of it, too, but as the night wore on and the bad puns and jokes kept flying, it was clear the sex toy was wearing out its welcome and they were more than a little ready to let it go.
The bottom line, though, is that we’re as yet too early in the season for a real villain to emerge. But it’s also easy to see that tensions are quickly rising and we’re going to pretty quickly start seeing some of these gorgeous beauties’ ugly sides.
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First Impression Gimmicks
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You never know if the gimmicks are going to work or not, but they do help break up the monotony of nervous hugs and people being excited to be there and connect and share a journey. The real question, though, is do they work?
Based on this premiere’s track record, it seems Matt enjoyed the more honest connection of even a boring conversation over someone showing up in goat hooves (Saneh) because they want him to think of them as a G.O.A.T.
Other gimmicks that fell flat include the woman who shows up on a tandem bicycle (Amber), the one who throws (badly) a fish at him (Kimberly) and the one who came in wearing a custom-made fooball jersey with “Mrs. James” on the back (Casandra), or the one who gave him some lavender from her mother’s garden (Carolyn).
This is our way of saying that all of these women did not survive the night, so meaningful meant more than clever … at least this season.
That’s not to say every gimmick failed, as the fellow North Carolina native who showed up in a pickup trick (Khaylah) and toasted sweet tea with him later in the night made a strong enough impression to stick around.
So did, as it turns out, both the “queen” — who was carried in by four men — and the woman who thought it made sense to bring her vibrator to meet her potential future husband.
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Other notable entrances included Alana’s “Lady & the Tramp” shared spaghetti moment, as well as Anna’s silly/sweet “survival kit,” while MJ nearly fumbled her pizza delivery. Kit pulled up in a Bentley and Illeana put her (meat)balls in his mouth.
Another great gimmick was the 5’2″ contestant who brought a stepstool so she could better meet the 6’5″ Matt eye to eye — or lips to lips. That was one of the Serenas, with the other possibly proving she had the quickest mind.
She wasn’t the only one who tripped during their entrance, but she was the only one who quickly told the Bachelor, “Oh my god, five seconds and I’m already trippin’ off you!”
Now, that’s just fantastic!
And a lot of the women caught Matt’s attention simply by how stunningly gorgeous they were. There was Kaili, who literally showed up in her underwear, saying she wanted Matt to help her pick out a dress, and then there was Mari.
Nothing super special happened with Mari’s greeting, but it was defintely a case of Matt hating to see her go, but loving to watch her walk away. He stole a lot of glances at the women’s backsides, but Mari was the only one that seemed to take his breath away.
“You ever meet somebody and you just don’t know what to say? That was that moment,” he said as she headed inside.
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First Impression Rose (and Kiss)
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Mari may have given the most striking first impression, but she did not score Matt’s First Impression rose. Nor did Rachael, who impressed Matt right away by opening up to him about their shared struggle in, ironically, opening up.
Other strong first impressions for us included Khaylah, riding that share North Carolina connection, as well as Kit, who leaned into their shared NYC connection.
Bri also had a meaningful connection with Matt, sharing her own mixed heritage with a Black father and Persian mother.
But before we even saw who got that First Impression Rose, we got a somewhat unexpected recipient of the season’s first kiss. Out of nowhere, Matt just went for it with Abigail, who had previously opened up about being deaf with him.
He also remembered that she’d shared that her sister was also deaf, meaning that her story (out of 31 other women) resonated that strongly with him for him to remember even those details.
And then, Abigail scored the season’s first (impression) rose as well, making her an immediate front-runner in the early going here. FIP recipients traditionally do very well, and clearly he’s drawn to her and impressed by her in equal measure.
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First Impression Bachelor
Katie may have brought the sex toy, but Matt looked positively distracted by all the beauty surrounding him all night. He commented constantly on how stunning the ladies were and could not keep his eyes off of them.
He is definitely ready and excited for the opportunity that was paraded in front of him. And he’s definitely going to have a lot of fun along the way.
But he also showed a lot of his heart and character. We know his fears of failing at love and leaving a broken home like the one he was raised in. And we learned the importance of his faith because he opened his time with the women with a prayer.
All in all, Matt seems to be a genuinely good guy, giving off a better first impression in these two hours even than he did in the trailer. And yes, he’s incredibly handsome and fit. We had to wait until the season teaser for the obligatory shower scene, but there were plenty of chest and abs shots to tide us over.
This is “The Bachelor,” after all. He said, “I like that,” a lot — because it’s in the script! — and he filled all the beats of a Bachelor. But there’s something fresh and exciting about how new it all is for him, too.
We know the Nation has a formula for casting its leads, and fans like the continuity and seein their favorite rejects get another shot, but we really enjoyed the fresh energy of seeing this experience play out through fresh eyes from the women and the Bachelor.
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“Another thing I wanted to talk to you about was just the pressure that I’ve put on myself being the first Black Bachelor. You know, it’s like, people want you to end up with a certain type of person, and I get that. So my mom is white and my dad is black. I experienced what it’s like to be a product of an interracial marriage, and it’s tough because you’ve got people who have certain views, old-school views, on what a relationship and what love looks like. And you’ve got people who are cheering for you to find love, and you’ve got people who are cheering for you to end up with a specific person–a specific person of a specific race. That’s something that has kept me up at night. I don’t want to piss off Black people. I don’t want to piss off white people. But I’m both of those, you know what I mean? It’s like, how do I please everybody.” –Matt (to Chris Harrison)
“So I brought something from home that’s really special to me and I thought I’d share it with you. You know, this pandemic was really hard for me. You know, social distancing, being alone, and this just got me through a lot. And I was hoping to pass the torch to you. But after seeing how you look and knowing that the Fantasy Suite is so far away, I actually might need it for, like, a little bit longer.” –Katie (with a dildo)
“Oh my gosh. I’m in trouble. … I just wanted to say that you’re the reason I’m here and I love that we get to do this whole thing for the first time together. And I think that you and I are gonna have a lot of fun together.” –Rachael
“I just wanna take a moment to let this all soak in and just say how grateful I am to be here and to meet you in person and call this place home for the next couple weeks, hopefully. It’s so crazy. I know, at least for me, I’ll be missing home a little bit, like, feeling a little homesick, away from friends and family. But I’m hoping one day, home will feel like it’s with me..” –Sarah (this didn’t make any sense)
“Everyone knows you’re making history as the first Black Bachelor. And I’m just really excited to get to you know, and hopefully we can make history together.” –Chelsea
“They say that love makes the world go ’round, and even though we can’t travel the world right now, I’m looking forward to this journey with you and seeing where in the world we end up together.” –Mari
“You ever meet somebody and you just don’t know what to say? That was that moment.” –Matt (watching Mari walk away)
“I just have to let you know you are … the hottest human being I have ever met. I’m so excited to see you.” –Sydney
“The verdict is in, and you have been found so guilty of being incredibly fine.” –Kristin
“I got you a little survival kit. I got, like, a little stress ball because I know this can be stressful. And I know some girls might give you a red flag here or two, so just, like, stick ’em in their hair or something.” –Anna
“Oh my god, five seconds and I’m already trippin’ off you. What the hell?” –Serena C (after stumbling up the step)
“I’ve heard that you’re very tall and I’m only 5’2″, so I brought a little something to help me get on your level.” –Serena P (with a step stool)
“I’ve been sitting in my hotel room all day trying to figure out what to wear. And I realized I don’t know anything about you, so what better opportunity to figure out what you like than to ask for your opinion on what I should wear?” –Kaili (in her underwear with two outfits on a clothing rack)
“You gotta love a woman with confidence.” –Matt (after Kaili’s arrival)
“So there’s something a little bit different about me. And that is I’m deaf. So I’m gonna be reading your lips a lot tonight. But thankfully, you have really beautiful lips, so I’m not complaining.” –Abigail
“My dad always wanted my sisters and I to keep our last name, which is James. So I am very happy to be meeting you.” –Pieper
“Oh shit. So that didn’t go as planned.” –MJ (arriving in pizza delivery car, but forgetting to unlock the door)
“I’ve been dying to ask you a question. Can I put my balls in your mouth?” –Illeana (offering Matt meatballs)
“So I’m Victoria, like the queen, And I’m looking for a king with a good heart and I heard that’s you, King Matt.” –Victoria
“You can be the queen of your little thing, but no. I’m the president, king, CEO.” –Kit (not impressed with Victoria)
“Tonight is going to be a long and hard night, but we need to remember to have fun.” –Katie (toasting Matt with her sex toy)
“Sorry, I saw the vibrator and I lost my train of thought.” –Matt (giving his opening speech to the women)
“I had a feeling that I was going to be infatuated with him. The fact that he opened that up with a prayer struck a nerve with me. I didn’t expect to feel like this so soon. He’s pretty much everything I expected him to be and more.” –Rachael
“It was never on my bucket list to boop a pageant queen on the shoulder with a dildo. Am I happy about it? Absolutely.” –Katie (after interrupting Mari)
“Mari would definitely benefit from using my vibrator.” –Katie
“Excuse me, princess, but the queen is here.” –Victoria (dismissing Kit)
“I feel like Matt and I had a great conversation. If the other girls don’t want to see him, that’s not my problem. If you like someone, you go for it.” –Victoria (going in for a second time with Matt)
“My heart just went to my butt.” –Pieper (after Chris brings in First Impression Rose)
Matt’s journey continues on “The Bachelor,” Mondays at 8 p.m. ET on ABC.