HomeLifestyleI have a sexual obsession with women’s feet and my wife has no idea – The Sun
I have a sexual obsession with women’s feet and my wife has no idea – The Sun
DEAR DEIDRE: WOMEN’S feet turn me on and I am addicted to looking at pictures of them when I pleasure myself.
I’m 39 and married with children. I started fixating on feet when I began masturbating at age 13 and I haven’t been able to break the habit since.
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Not even after I got married, though I realise it is inappropriate now and my wife has no idea, of course.
I am ashamed of this weird habit and have never wanted to share it with any sexual partners but just use photos or video clips instead.
How do I get rid of this obsession?
DEIDRE SAYS: One theory for a foot fetish is that it stems from being left too much on the floor as a baby and toddler, crawling around your mum’s feet instead of being in her arms with loving eye contact.
Don’t blame yourself, as it’s not your choice and the shame makes the fetish harder to shift.
My e-leaflet Fetish Worries explains more and you can get help from the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (cosrt.org.uk).