Is it right to get back at my cheating husband with a guy who has made sexual advances? – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband cheated on me two years ago with his best friend’s wife and lost most of his friends over it when it came out.

I was heartbroken but we put it behind us and life was good again. We are in our early forties.

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My husband works away and I went out with a group of girlfriends one night while he was gone.

A man joined us and started chatting me up. I stupidly let him walk me home and asked him in for a coffee.

He started to touch my breasts and kissed me.

I said he must leave, but I am terrified someone finds out or he tells my husband.

This man tried to message me through Facebook the other night.

Should I tell my husband or just hope it all goes away? Two wrongs do not make a right.

DEIDRE SAYS: Get this into proportion.

Your husband cheated on you but you sent this guy packing as soon as he tried it on. You’ve done nothing wrong except maybe being a bit naïve.

It’s unlikely this guy will see it as anything to brag about.

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