DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband cheated on me two years ago with his best friend’s wife and lost most of his friends over it when it came out.
I was heartbroken but we put it behind us and life was good again. We are in our early forties.
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My husband works away and I went out with a group of girlfriends one night while he was gone.
A man joined us and started chatting me up. I stupidly let him walk me home and asked him in for a coffee.
He started to touch my breasts and kissed me.
I said he must leave, but I am terrified someone finds out or he tells my husband.
This man tried to message me through Facebook the other night.
Should I tell my husband or just hope it all goes away? Two wrongs do not make a right.
DEIDRE SAYS: Get this into proportion.
Your husband cheated on you but you sent this guy packing as soon as he tried it on. You’ve done nothing wrong except maybe being a bit naïve.
It’s unlikely this guy will see it as anything to brag about.
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