My wife is bored of our sexy routine, how do I get the spark back? – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: ON Saturdays after she’s been at work, my wife comes down from a hot bath in sexy underwear.

We put on music and enjoy a glass of wine. It’s great but now she is getting bored with our routine.

She is 47, I am 49 and we celebrate our silver wedding anniversary this summer.

We already use sex toys and I don’t know what else to do.

I love my wife and she has a great body.

But how do we bring the excitement back?

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DEIDRE SAYS: You have been using props and ideas gleaned from porn and male-focused ideas of sex.

Men tend to be aroused by visual stimuli far more than women, who are into physical and emotional simulation.

Take things back to basics with your wife, exploring one another through touch while you tell her how much you love her.

Ban intercourse for now and explore other ways to arouse and satisfy one another.

Try role-play, too – pretending you have just met or are secret lovers.

Congratulations on your silver wedding – but variety brings fresh spice.

My e-leaflet 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex will help you on that front.

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