The latest sex trend is ‘spite porn’ where people can pay an adult star to send a message to naughty exes

SCORNED lovers are getting adult stars to send messages to their exes in the latest sex trend dubbed ‘spite porn’.  

The term has been coined by dominatrix, Allie Eve Knox, who says people are paying her to shame their former lovers. 

Allie tweeted: “A woman just ordered a custom video from me to send to her ex husband and have me shame him for all the s**t he did while they were together and I’ve never felt more needed in my entire life.” 

Explaining how it works, Allie told Rolling Stone magazine she first reels in the target with saucy scenes to get them hooked, telling them someone bought them a 'special video'. 

Allie then says: “Now that I’ve got you right where I want you, I think I’ll share a little secret with you, a little surprise I’ve been keeping.”

Allie then switches up the tone and says ‘I’ve befriended your ex-wife’, before giving them a humiliating ‘verbal spanking’. 

The woman who requested the clip gave Allie a list of her ex-husband’s specific flaws, as she thought the video would be a great way for him to hear “what a terrible person he is”. 

Allie hurls insults at him, which include calling him "selfish, careless and stupid".

According to Allie the content was: “His porn obsession, his narcissism, how he is self absorbed. Stuff that could speak to most men.” 

Her tweet has since gone viral, as people praised the ex-wife for coming up with the idea, and Allie for executing it with perfection.

Some people called for 'spite porn' to become its own category, with one person commenting: "This should be a whole category on Clip sites."

Another wrote: “I salute that woman for being a real one to her feelings and how she expresses them.”

A third said: "Oh wow this is like the best way to make your ex hear your grievances."

And this person thought: "This is epic!!!! Yessssss! LOL. 

“This woman must have a good sense of humor.”

Plus we revealed phone sex has soared in lockdown with Sheffield and Belfast the horniest cities – but how does your local town tally up?

And the ultimate lockdown sex survey reveals 59% of you have done it in the lounge and nearly HALF have used sex toys.

While this innocent phone habit could actually mean your partner is cheating on you.

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The kind of trend that speaks to Heart of Bone’s Emma Abrahams

Emma Abrahams from Heart of Bone jewellery shares her rock-chic secrets.

Emma Abrahams: “I’m always on the lookout on vintage sites and auctions.”Credit:Courtesy of Emma Abrahams

How would you describe your style?
I spend most of my time in the same pair of tight, ripped black jeans, T-shirt, old denim shirt and my biker boots, but I go from that to a full head-to-toe Chanel or Rick Owens look. So, I guess it’s a random mix of chic, rock, biker and goth glam.

What’s the oldest thing in your wardrobe?
My great-grandmother’s wedding dress. It was hand sewn by her from the most beautiful cream silk with fine gold threads. It’s a real treasure.

And the latest addition?
A YSL intarsia skeleton sweater. It sold out immediately in my size but I finally found one on eBay.

What would you wear …
… on a first date? It totally depends on who it’s with!
… on a plane? Usually jeans, a T-shirt, cashmere sweater, cashmere scarf and my black velvet McQueen slippers.
… to the Oscars? I’d prefer to go to the Met Gala if we’re talking serious red-carpet moments. It would definitely be Rick Owens. I can’t imagine even thinking about another designer for a couture gown.

Do you have a favourite designer?
Azzedine Alaïa. He was a genius; I named my daughter after him. I met him on a few occasions, and I was just in awe of him, he was so graceful and humble. I’ve been collecting Alaïa, both vintage and current, since I got my first job. Alexander McQueen, John Galliano and Rick Owens are high up the list, too.

Favourite fragrance?
Alaïa Paris, of course.

What is your favourite period for fashion?
Late 1990s through to 2010. I loved the entire Alexander McQueen era. And Galliano for Dior, too.

Emma loved to put together outfits from offcuts as a child.Credit:Courtesy of Emma Abrahams

What are three essential items in your wardrobe?
Black leather pants, platform boots, and my vintage Chanel fitted black bouclé jacket.

Can you remember a favourite outfit you had as a child?
My earliest memory is wearing my grandmother’s pink satin ostrich-feather slippers.

And your first fashion moment?
I was obsessed with fashion as a child. My paternal grandparents were tailors and my other grandparents were textile designers. From as young as three, I was cutting up old fabric rolls and making myself lavish gowns with safety pins and knotted-together offcuts.

What’s your worst fashion mistake?
Probably in the ’80s as a tween, doing the whole Boy George look with a side ponytail. That was a standout disaster.

What would you buy if money were no object?
I always dreamt of commissioning a couture Chanel black jacket with Karl Lagerfeld, but sadly that’s no longer possible. I’d love to own a McQueen runway piece; I’m always on the lookout on vintage sites and auctions.

Who is your style muse?
Morticia Addams, Scarlett O’Hara, Elvira, Daphne Guinness and a bit of Lou Doillon thrown in.

Is there something you’d never wear?
Slingbacks. I find them totally boring and impossible to walk in. Also, purple.

What shoes do you wear most often?
Belstaff biker boots.

Favourite casual Sunday look?
Cashmere sweater, jeans, bare feet.

Is there a current trend you like?
I love how Billie Eilish, who’s a very special client of ours, has taken a dark mix of mad street style, high fashion and logo culture to a whole new level. She’s also a great role model when it comes to mental health, environmental issues and authenticity. That’s the kind of trend that speaks to me.

This article appears in Sunday Life magazine within the Sun-Herald and the Sunday Age on sale March 8.

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