{"id":137633,"date":"2023-09-19T11:37:24","date_gmt":"2023-09-19T11:37:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/magdelaine.net\/?p=137633"},"modified":"2023-09-19T11:37:24","modified_gmt":"2023-09-19T11:37:24","slug":"couple-behind-super-cringeworthy-love-surge-trend-hit-back-at-trolls","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/magdelaine.net\/lifestyle\/couple-behind-super-cringeworthy-love-surge-trend-hit-back-at-trolls\/","title":{"rendered":"Couple behind super cringeworthy &apos;love surge&apos; trend hit back at trolls"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>Married couple behind &#8216;disgustingly cringeworthy&#8217; dating trend hit out at &#8216;shocking&#8217; backlash they&#8217;ve faced since going viral: &#8216;People want terrible things to happen to us&#8217;<\/h1>\n<ul>\n<li><span>Couple bullied over cringeworthy love video<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span>READ MORE: The five minute relationship hack which could save your marriage\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The couple behind TikTok&#8217;s most cringeworthy dating trend, the &#8216;love surge&#8217;, have revealed the touching reason behind the &#8216;strange&#8217; romantic habit.<\/p>\n<p>Speaking on the Today Show Lilianna Wilde revealed love surges started with her dad who was a tow truck driver and spent &#8216;days on the road&#8217; at a time.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;He was kind of first on the scene for some really tragic accidents,&#8217; she said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;So when he came home he was just really grateful that he still had his family.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>This lead to the father giving Lilianna, her brother and mum huge squeezes which he nicknamed &#8216;love squeezes&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I just brought that into my relationship with Sean,&#8217; she said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I don&#8217;t know how we came up with love surge , but when we just feel so grateful for each other we gotta get it out.&#8217;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>In the viral video, which has been seen over 7million times, her partner Sean Kolar is seen buzzing in the background before showing off the love surge.<\/p>\n<p>The couple said they don&#8217;t &#8216;love surge&#8217; in public.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;We usually do it after a long day, after coming home when we haven&#8217;t seen each other in a while and we are just excited to give each other a little bit of love,&#8217; Sean said.<\/p>\n<p>They also described how the conversation around the video went from light and funny to concerning.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/19\/01\/75576303-12533323-The_couple_revealed_how_the_comments_on_the_video_went_from_funn-a-1_1695083443821.jpg\" height=\"952\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>The couple revealed how the comments on the video went from funny to disturbing\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;It was really kind of shocking to see that strangers, like, wanted something terrible to happen to us because of this,&#8217; Lilianna said.<\/p>\n<p>The popular TikTok couple admitted the idea of vibrating with love may be &#8216;cringey&#8217; and too &#8216;couplie&#8217; for many but couldn&#8217;t wait to share it with their fans anyway.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately their video, which shows Sean buzzing behind his wife before latching on and vibrating to &#8216;release&#8217; the energy, caught the attention of cruel trolls.<\/p>\n<p>Their twisted comments left Lilianna in tears and calling for kindness.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The original video begins with Lilianna smiling into the camera and explaining what a love surge is.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/18\/02\/75541311-12529527-image-a-7_1694999093589.jpg\" height=\"1127\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>When Lilianna Wilde and Sean Kolar have too much love flowing through their bodies they connect in a &#8216;love surge&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;We do this when one of us has so much love in our limbs that we can&#8217;t contain it and feel like we are going to explode,&#8217; she said.<\/p>\n<p>Then directed attention to her partner buzzing in the background.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Sean is having a love surge right now and he is going to wrap around me and shake with the electricity of love until I catch it too and start shaking and then you explode with love surge,&#8217; she said.<\/p>\n<p>About 33,000 people commented on the &#8216;love surge&#8217; &#8211; and most of them were cruel.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;It&#8217;s funny because I&#8217;m getting the complete opposite of a love surge watching this,&#8217; said another.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I miss the person I was 10 seconds ago,&#8217; one person wrote.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/19\/01\/75576301-12533323-They_also_admitted_they_don_t_love_surge_in_public-a-2_1695083444473.jpg\" height=\"635\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>They also admitted they don&#8217;t &#8216;love surge&#8217; in public<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;If this is love then I don&#8217;t want it,&#8217; said another.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Others revealed the idea of a love surge gave them the &#8216;ick&#8217;.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;This video made me consider breaking up with my boyfriend just to make sure I never risk experiencing a love surge,&#8217; one woman said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Time to invest in a love surge protector,&#8217; said another.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I love my husband like nothing else on this planet but if he ever tried this with me\u2026&#8217; added another.<\/p>\n<p>While some commented to tell the couple to consider &#8216;having secrets&#8217;.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Some joked they should have heeded the warning on the video, which Lilianna enjoyed.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;And yet you still chose to swim through the cringe canal,&#8217; she laughed.<\/p>\n<p>But it was the violent comments calling for the couple to break up, have affairs or be involved in domestic violence which appeared too much for Lilianna.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/18\/02\/75541315-12529527-image-a-8_1694999098254.jpg\" height=\"1127\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately their video, which shows Sean buzzing behind his wife before latching on and vibrating to &#8216;release&#8217; the energy, caught the attention of cruel trolls<\/p>\n<p>She faced the camera in tears in a follow up video.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I didn&#8217;t expect like that much hate on the video a lot of the duet stitches were funny I can take a joke and I can laugh at myself,&#8217; she cried.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;But then some of the comments got clearly really mean and they were like wishing that someone cheated on each other or wishing like DV on me.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;If the goal was to make me sad you won.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>i\u2019m so sorry we are like this lol but we can\u2019t help it \ud83d\ude2d\u2665\ufe0f\u2728 @Sean Kolar #marriagehumor #marriagecomedy #husbandwife #husbandwifecomedy #husbandsoftiktok #couplecomedy #couple #husband #wife #couplestiktok <\/p>\n<p>She clarified that the &#8216;stitched&#8217; content that made fun of her husband wasn&#8217;t the problem, just the cruel comments.<\/p>\n<p>People stood up for her in the teary video.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;People hating on you for the love surge are just mad because they don\u2019t have someone that loves them like that for real.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Lilianna said &#8216;everyone deserves a love surge&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Then they would know how sweet it is,&#8217; she said.<\/p>\n<h3>&#8216;Genius&#8217; life hack for solving one of the most common couple&#8217;s arguments: &#8216;Where do you want to go for dinner?&#8217;\u00a0<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/18\/02\/68143351-12529527-Dee_jay_admitted_he_and_his_wife_have_had_the_same_cross_convers-a-1_1694998823627.jpg\" height=\"735\" width=\"586\"><\/p>\n<p>Dee jay admitted he and his wife have had the same, cross, conversation about dinner<\/p>\n<p>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/femail\/relationships\/article-12533323\/Lilianna-Wilde-Sean-Kolar-love-surge-TikTok-cringey-relationship-habit.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read Full Article<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Married couple behind &#8216;disgustingly cringeworthy&#8217; dating trend hit out at &#8216;shocking&#8217; backlash they&#8217;ve faced since going viral: &#8216;People want terrible things to happen to us&#8217; 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