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DEAR DEIDRE: I\u2019M so excited by the thought of what sex would be like with other guys that I\u2019m going to suggest to my husband that we have an open relationship.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve only ever slept with him and I am so desperate to put my fantasies into action, but I don\u2019t want to wreck my marriage.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m 27 and my husband is 30. We got together when I was 17 and we married when I was 22.<\/p>\n

People think I\u2019m lucky to have settled down with my first love, and I am \u2014 except I feel like I\u2019ve missed out on so many experiences.<\/p>\n

I adore him and our sex is good and loving, but I wonder if it might be better with someone else?<\/p>\n

And even if it\u2019s not better, it will be different.<\/p>\n

Get in touch with the Dear Deidre team<\/h3>\n

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Fill out and submit our easy-to-use and confidential form and the Dear Deidre team will get back to you.<\/p>\n

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My fantasies about other men started when a guy chatted me up in a cafe.<\/p>\n

He was so good-looking and, even though I brushed him off, that night I found myself thinking about him while I pleasured myself. <\/p>\n

The next time my husband and I had sex, I imagined he was the other guy and my orgasms were off the scale.<\/p>\n

Since then, I\u2019ve often found myself flirting with men. I don\u2019t want to split up with my husband, so surely an open relationship would be the perfect answer?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s OK for him \u2014 he slept with a few girls before we met.<\/p>\n

DEIDRE SAYS:\u00a0<\/strong><\/span>Open relationships are not the magic formula that many are looking for.<\/p>\n

In order for non-monogamy to work, you both need to be secure in your relationship, be excellent communicators and be able to completely trust each other.<\/p>\n

All too often, readers contact me when similar arrangements go wrong \u2013 someone has felt undermined, jealous or, worse still, fallen for the third person.<\/p>\n

If you are insistent you want to try an open relationship, make sure you discuss the arrangement carefully with your husband and agree the rules.<\/p>\n

Would you be able to sleep with the same third person multiple times?<\/p>\n

Would you want to know who the other person was? <\/p>\n

Would you go on dates with the third person or would it be purely about sex?<\/p>\n

It would be better for your marriage to reboot your sexual relationship with your husband instead.<\/p>\n

My support pack, 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex, should help.<\/p>\n

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