{"id":138254,"date":"2023-09-27T18:41:31","date_gmt":"2023-09-27T18:41:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/magdelaine.net\/?p=138254"},"modified":"2023-09-27T18:41:31","modified_gmt":"2023-09-27T18:41:31","slug":"my-confidence-is-on-the-floor-after-i-made-a-costly-mistake-at-work-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/magdelaine.net\/lifestyle\/my-confidence-is-on-the-floor-after-i-made-a-costly-mistake-at-work-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"My confidence is on the floor after I made a costly mistake at work | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"

DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER making a small mistake at work, I was demoted.<\/p>\n

Since then I\u2019ve been treated so badly that I\u2019ve started to feel suicidal.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m a 42-year-old man and have always taken pride in my job, and given it my all. But I inputted some data wrongly, which was costly for the company.<\/p>\n

I admitted my mistake but for months, while the company investigated it, I lived under the threat of dismissal.<\/p>\n

Eventually, they decided to give me another job instead, one which pays less and is beneath my capabilities.<\/p>\n

Get in touch with the Dear Deidre team<\/h3>\n

Every problem gets a personal reply from one of our trained counsellors.<\/p>\n

Fill out and submit our easy-to-use and confidential form and the Dear Deidre team will get back to you.<\/p>\n

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I had no choice but to accept it. I\u2019ve lost all my confidence, can\u2019t sleep and am struggling to function.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve had no support from anyone, including HR. They just sided with my manager.<\/p>\n

So I\u2019ve realised the company doesn\u2019t care about me, despite my years service. It feels like my whole life is unravelling.<\/p>\n

DEIDRE SAYS:\u00a0<\/strong><\/span> So much self-esteem comes from work. When something goes wrong it can feel overwhelming.<\/p>\n

With the right support, you can get through this. <\/p>\n

If you are feeling suicidal, please contact CALM, The Campaign Against Living Miserably (the calmzone.net, 0800 58 58 58).<\/p>\n

Make an appointment with your GP so you can access mental health services.<\/p>\n

ACAS (acas.org.uk, 0300 123 1100) can advise on employment and if you have a cause for formal complaint after the way you were treated.<\/p>\n

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