{"id":140622,"date":"2023-11-15T03:32:53","date_gmt":"2023-11-15T03:32:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/magdelaine.net\/?p=140622"},"modified":"2023-11-15T03:32:53","modified_gmt":"2023-11-15T03:32:53","slug":"his-mixed-signals-are-making-my-head-spin-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/magdelaine.net\/lifestyle\/his-mixed-signals-are-making-my-head-spin-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"His mixed signals are making my head spin | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>DEAR DEIDRE: I\u2019ve been seeing a guy for a few months. We have a lot of similar interests and enjoy a lot of the same things.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve never been so happy in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m 23 and he\u2019s 27. He told me he thinks about me every day, but when I commented on that, he quickly said: \u201cI think about all of the people I\u2019m close to most days.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It was as if I\u2019d caught him out on his feelings.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s had trauma in his life \u2013 his previous relationships have all gone badly, and he was cheated on.<\/p>\n<p>We met up recently and the vibe between us felt different. The only time we kissed was when he said goodbye leaving my house.<\/p>\n<p>He then took ages to reply to my messages.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s left me confused, not knowing where I stand. Do you think he\u2019s pulling away because he\u2019s scared of commitment?<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve never been lucky in love, and I am scared of getting rejected.<\/p>\n<h2>MORE FROM DEAR DEIDRE<\/h2>\n<p><source media=\"(-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 1.5)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/fil_5352m-JS857850176.jpg\"><source data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/fil_5352m-JS857850176.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/fil_5352m-JS857850176.jpg\"><\/picture><span>SISTER STRESS <\/span><\/p>\n<h3>My sister hasn&#x27;t spoken to me in ten years &#8211; how do I mend things?<\/h3>\n<p><source media=\"(-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 1.5)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/deidre-casebook-wc05nov-day6-comp.jpg\"><source data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/deidre-casebook-wc05nov-day6-comp.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/deidre-casebook-wc05nov-day6-comp.jpg\"><\/picture><span>DEIDRE&#x27;S STORIES <\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Dalton accepts he may never get Stella back<\/h3>\n<p>DEIDRE SAYS: I think you are right when you say you caught him out on his feelings. <\/p>\n<p>He has been hurt in the past and it could be that he is afraid to commit to a relationship with you.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t sound as if you have done anything wrong, so please don\u2019t blame yourself. The only way to find out how he feels about you and the relationship is if you ask him.<\/p>\n<p>I know you are worried about being rejected, but at least you will know where you stand.<\/p>\n<p>Talking to a counsellor will really help with your fear of rejection.<\/p>\n<p>My support pack Finding The Right Partner For You will also help you to think this through.<\/p>\n<h2>Most read in Dear Deidre<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/deidre-casebook-wc05nov-day6-comp.jpg\"><\/p>\n<h3>Dalton accepts he may never get Stella back<\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/000012751385_XXXLargejpg-JS857849001.jpg\"><\/p>\n<h3>My husband is having sex with my best friend<\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/faa119000027jpg-JS857849194.jpg\"><\/p>\n<h3>I&#8217;ve fallen head over heels for a colleague 30 years younger<\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/fil_5352m-JS857850176.jpg\"><\/p>\n<h3>My sister hasn&#8217;t spoken to me in ten years &#8211; how do I mend things?<\/h3>\n<p>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thesun.co.uk\/dear-deidre\/24693202\/scared-man-im-seeing-pulling-away\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read Full Article<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>DEAR DEIDRE: I\u2019ve been seeing a guy for a few months. 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