28/11/2023

We are harassed in public just because we are hot – being sexy is terrifying

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A Babestation model recently opened up to the Daily Star about being “scared for her life” after twice being harassed by men in separate gyms.

The first happened when a bloke she met at a popular fitness centre started sending her inappropriate messages while she was on shift – before she terminated her membership.

But earlier this month she was left feeling exposed when a group of five blokes gawped at her during a workout with a female personal trainer.

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Explaining what happened, she said: “I am going to be 37 this week but it makes me feel anxious and scared for my life. What really scares me to be honest is that I take my training really seriously and then you have an individual, well in this case five people, who intrude on me.

“They were staring and kind of laughing between each other really loudly and I wanted to show them that I could see them… like stop, why are you doing this? I pointed it out to my PT and she said they always acted like this with women.

“But it is happening quite often, they have toxic male traits and you find them at the gym and they are especially the type of people that listen to the Tate guys.

“They were purposely standing and staring and trying to make me feel vulnerable, trying to make me feel intimidated. In England there are signs in London on the underground saying intrusive staring is illegal.”

Stella, who is a former radiographer who dated one of Britain’s most wanted men while he was on the run for murder, added: “They started coming closer and closer and narrowing their eyes and staring. I am like ‘dude what the f***?’ They didn’t move and just stood there, it was unreal, like a dream. You are doing it on purpose to make the person feel intimidated and trying to exert control over them.

“Imagine if I was by myself? I know there are cameras but I don’t think they would care and because I have been through stuff before it makes me feel anxious and makes me think of the past and things I have gone through with my eyes.”

She believes she attracts unwanted attention because some people recognise her from Babestation – but she went on to say that what she does on camera is just an act.

But Stella is not the only model who has been made to feel uncomfortable in public and below we look at some more examples.

Lowri Rose

Welsh beauty Lowri Rose went viral after she was pulled off the ice at Winter Wonderland after another customer became offended by her outfit.

Lowri, who recently told us she would never stop wearing “crazy outfits”, had on a turtleneck and a mini skirt over shorts when her presence caused uproar.

Explaining what happened, she told Daily Star at the time: “I’m covered in tattoos so it’s not uncommon that I’m harassed by Karen type women. I knew as soon as they wanted to pull me off the ice what it was for. I know it’s due to how I look in general because this is such a frequent occurrence from some women.

“It’s just a real shame that they’re refusing to acknowledge that it was a mistake on their end. If it was a case of my skirt came up and someone wanted to let me know I would have no issue, I don’t want the humiliation of being exposed in public.”

After the woman complained to a member of staff she was told to leave the rink – but she has now revealed that she will return to the Cardiff fun fair this winter while wearing the same outfit again.

Lowri, who sells adult content online, explained: “On reflection I wish I’d stood my ground more last year and if it happened again this year I’d definitely be more firm. I wear mini skirts everywhere with no issue so I want to wear it again to prove a point that there’s no issue.”

Sara Blake Cheek

Playboy model Sara Blake Cheek has a similar story after she was banned from her 10-year-old son’s ice rink for “unacceptable conduct”.

The mum-of-four, from Florida, was there to support her son, Camden, who was playing a match. But she said one of the fathers was mocking her throughout because of her saucy career.

And things turned ugly when he supposedly cheered when her son hurt himself on the ice. Afterwards, Sara, 33, told the Daily Star: “I turned around and said ‘seriously’? He says ‘shut the f*** up you stupid b***h’ and then proceeds to tell me he will ‘beat my f***ing ass’.

“Of course I defend my son, what kind of adult cheers for a hurt kid? My husband stands up and tells him that’s enough and things settle and we finish the game.”

However, Sara and her boy were then devastated when the manager of Ellenton Ice and Sport Complex emailed her to say her whole family were now banned.

Sara, who used to be a salon owner, believes she would not have become embroiled in a row in a public place if she was an ordinary looking woman working a traditional job.

And opening up about the discrimination she endures because of her looks, she added: “It is shocking to me that anyone has an issue with what I do for a living because you have to seek that out and pay for it.

“But these people act like they aren’t doing worse behind closed doors with someone else’s husband or getting off to my content while their wife is sleeping.

“Let’s not pretend these women didn’t find out through busting their husband for having an account of following me. After the incident I had about 12 requests from dads at the rink.

“I don’t use my kids hockey games to advertise my business, I don’t confirm requests from other dads on my social media. So they have to do those things anonymously.”

Fran Sawyer

British mum Fran Sawyer believes her glamor is the reason why she has no female pals.

Friendless Fran, 55, spoke exclusively to us about how she has never been invited to a wedding before and how her son’s headmistress asked her to park away from the school gates because she was “upsetting the other ladies”.

Talking about how her “beauty is a curse”, she added: “Women just judge me, everyone judges me. They judge me because I’m glamorous, and when you’re glamorous and attractive it’s really hard as you just want to be liked and you never will be.

“If they were confident they wouldn’t worry about it, but I make an effort with them because maybe I’m so confident that I try as they’re a bit insecure. I try my hardest to make friends, but it just doesn’t work out.”

She has been praised in the past for raising £100,000 for charity by selling sexy selfies but her allure is not appreciated closer to home.

And explaining the bonkers school gates story, she said: “I could wear no makeup in a pub and women don’t like me. I used to go to the school gates – my son went to a private school – and the headmistress would say to me ‘you’re upsetting the other ladies, you can park down the road’.

“It used to really hurt me and something clicked in my brain and I thought ‘I’m quite special I’m going to raise all that money and give them something to talk about’.

“And that’s what I did. I used to go up to the school and stand on my own because no one would talk to me. I’m a bit of a gobs***e, I’m confident but I don’t think I’m Miss World because I’m grounded.”

Monica Huldt

Similar to Stella Paris, another model who has had issues in the gym because of their beauty is Monica Huldt, a Swedish pin-up based in Arizona.

Countless eerie incidents, like having her legs grabbed by a stranger on a train, made her consider hiring a bodyguard to keep her safe in public.

The married woman, who has a whopping 2.6million followers on Instagram, said: “I get hit on at the gym at least once every time I go and I work out minimum five times a week so it can get a bit draining.

“Once I was looking at my phone one day and this older guy came up to me and said ‘stop trying to text me, I didn’t bring my phone’. I replied saying I wasn’t texting him and he then asked if I wanted to.

“It does make me feel good to know they find me attractive as I didn’t have the best self-esteem growing up. But most of the time I just want to be left alone so I can get in and get out.”

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